SEEK AND YE SHALL FIND:SHE WANTS A GOOD MAN

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RELATIONSHIP TIP OF THE WEEK "SEEK AND YE SHALL FIND"
by Fabian
twitter.com/thefabe


Disclaimer:this is merely the devil's advocate speaking his mind and is not the end all be all to why you can't find a man.

So you say you want a good man but there aren't any good men left. The first step for a woman to find a good man is to actually believe that some of us are good. You can't find something that you truly don't believe exists.
 The cycle of telling each other all men are dogs skews reality which leads to the second premise of this article: Perception.

Ask yourself what do you want in a man but restrict yourself to only three sentences to answer, look at the answers and see if you wrote what you want or what would impress your female friends.

With an incorrect definition of a good man, chances are you will never find him.

Which leads to the third point:
Do you really believe you deserve a good man or that a good man is capable of loving you for who you are despite your shortcomings?

Honestly answer that and maybe you might find why you don't have a good man.
Some women don't believe a good man could ever love them for who they really are so they either treat him poorly or subconsciously only give play to the "bad" ones.

It's also possible you already had one and didn't know how to recognize one.

Every good man that crosses your path wasn't put here just for you (i.e: that good dude that may have said he's not ready or wants a relationship with you, may be meant for another woman).

So the next time you fix your mouth to say there aren't any good men, STOP AND THINK WHAT THAT SAYS ABOUT YOU!

written humbly for you by me ....THE FABIAN

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